#39 Coaching Support Group Bucuresti, 11 februarie, 7pm

Dragii mei,
Va anunt ca incepe o noua serie de Coaching Support Group in Bucuresti, primul eveniment din acest an, 2010 pe data de 11 februarie, intre orele 19:00 si 21:00.
Ne-am propus sa reincepem in forta campania noastra de a face cunoscut coachingul in Bucuresti si sa va oferim ocazia sa experimentati o noua structura, unde dincolo de informarea despre coaching, va veti descoperi pe voi insiva si de asemenea, veti gasi rezolvari la unele dintre problemele voastre majore profesionale.
Coaching Support Group –Noble Manhattan este o intalnire pentru coachi acreditati sau aflati in formare, dar si pentru cei ce vor sa afle mai multe despre coaching in general.
In cadrul fiecarei intalniri vom avea un invitat si va fi abordata o tema pe un anumit subiect din domeniul dezvoltarii personale de interes pentru oaspetii nostrii.
Urmatorul nostru invitat, care ne-a facut onoarea sa participe la eveniment este D-na Elena Tutunaru - specialist in medierea conflictelor in organizatii si companii, lucreaza in consultanta si managemnetul vanzarilor cu o experienta de 20 de ani in domeniu..
Noua forma a grupului include urmatoarea structura:
i. 10 minute de networking
ii. 5-10 minute – Bun venit, prezentarea structurii serii
iii. 30 minute de discurs al Invitatei, Dna Elena Tutunaru, pe tema “Costul Conflictul in Antreprenoriat si Afaceri”
iv. 10 minute de discutii, intrebari, feedback din partea participantilor
v. 30-40 minute Impartirea pe 3 grupuri de activitati:
1. Grup de Studiu sau Practica (Peer coaching) ;
2. Sesiuni de coaching Gratuit: Sedinte de Coaching Gratuit;
3. Grup MasterMind de impartire a cunostintelor de afaceri prin oferirea de optiuni pentru rezolvarea unei probleme punctulale propusa si aleasa de participanti (cu ajutorul unui moderator)
vi. 10 minute incheierea serii
vii. 10 minute de networking
Evenimentul este organizat pe baza de voluntariat, iar contributia pentru acoperirea costurilor inchirierii salii este una simbolica reprezentand doar: 15-25 RON/persoana. Intalnirea are loc in sala de conferinte a hotelului Unique, strada Caderea Bastiliei, 35. Pentru detalii privind locatia: http://www.hotelunique.ro/index.html .

Va rog sa confirmati inscrierea pe e-mail la adresa coaching@ludmilamarin.com pana marti, 9 ianuarie 2010. Locurile sunt limitate!

Va asteptam cu drag la 18:50 pm pentru a incepe conform programului.
Cu drag,
Ludmila Marin ,
Life and Performance Coach
in parteneriat cu Noble Manhattan Coaching.

# 38 Who is actually guiding our lives?

Just the other day I’ve experienced a great discovery. And it was more interesting because I haven’t read about it, but I’ve lived it and said: “Wow! This is new… and wonderful!”

We are taught that each of us is different and this should explain everything. It’s true, we are different, unique, through our great mixture of qualities and beauty, through our nice gestures and loving nature, but this is not all...
We are different because we think, because we show reactions to others in unique ways… and also because of the external signals that we send involuntarily. In a conversation we can see more then we are conscious about. We can see the face muscles reacting, we can hear the voice lowering or climbing, being defensive or offensive, or just balanced. We can see the body moving and stopping, the intentional and unintentional actions. We can see everything…

Do we react? SURE WE DO!

Are we aware of that? JUST SOMETIMES.

What happens in the rest of the time? We actually believe that we communicate in a certain pre-established way, but we often send the real message.
For instance, we like a person. We don’t want her/him to see that we are so happy and enthusiastic to meet her/him. The other person perceives our smile, our joy, and our enthusiasm, although we do feel that we have send the intended, scheduled message. This is a fortunate example.

On the other hand, when we don’t like something/someone, it isn’t very difficult to show our real feelings unconsciously. The other person’s intuition kicks in, she/he gets it, and we can often hear: “I don’t know why, but I don’t like that person”. And... puff!! Conflicts happen because we are different and we bring too little into our consciousness and ask too much from our reactions.

So, I really believe that our life is mostly guided by our subconscious. How much we bring to the surface – and how – depends on us.
The way I see it, this is the starting point: get in touch with your so called “intuition”. It will give you explanations, understanding, and awareness.
We all lead our lives more or less aware.

Now to make it really useful for you, think about this: In which way do my ideas apply to your life? Give yourself 3 minutes to think about that.

I will be back soon with a great post about response and reaction.
Search for signs!

# 37 2009 Achievments or 2010 new year's resolution?

Yesterday one of me coachee asked me which one to focus on: the achievments of last year or the wishes with deadlines for the next one?

Very interesting that the end of the year doesn't implies both.

Now I am asking you:

1.What do you choose to do with the time instead of focusing on reminding yourself the achievements of last year?

2.How do you gain the energy needed to continue to raise to the next year's challenges?

3.What do you choose to do with the time and energy that gives you direction for the next year to come?

Regarding my coachee she had choosen both. But starting with the best in mind-her achievements- has created a great starting point for what will come.



Now I am wondering which do you choose and why?

How long will take you to do them both if you have chosen like this and when it is realistic to do it?


Joyful Holidays,

LUDA